Making changes in national law to protect victim/survivors of domestic violence!


“Teen Dating Violence: What do we really know?”

As we look at the cute couples in High School you would never think that 1 and 5 teens that have been in a serious relationship report being hit, slapped or pushed by a partner.  This is a subject that we don’t talk about over coffee or on lunch break.  Most of all this wouldn’t be a subject an abused teen would speak with their parents about.  1 in 3 girls who have been in a serious relationship say they’ve been concerned about being physically hurt by their partner.  To change these astounding numbers we have to speak up and speak out about Teen Dating Violence.  No matter what parents of the victims have to be supportive no matter the frustrations.  Here are some of the signs to look for:

  • Falling or failing grades
  • Increased instances of indecision, stops giving her own opinion
  • Changes in mood or personality
  • Use of drugs/alcohol, not just experimentation
  • Emotional outburst, not just mood swings
  • Depression
  • Will become isolated, insist on more privacy
  • Physical signs of injury cuts, bruises, etc.
  • Makes excuses for the abusers behavior
  • Begins to put herself/himself down.


  • Is extremely jealous, hypersensitive and controlling
  • Verbally abusive and threatens violence
  • Has unpredictable mood swings, with instances of explosive anger
  • Uses drugs and alcohol not just experimentation
  • Isolates their partner from friends and family
  • Uses force during an argument, physical and emotional
  • Believes in rigid sex roles women are a possession
  • Blames others for his problems or feelings
  • Has a history of abusive relationships.

Stay open with your teen and be honest about Teen Dating Violence.  Be Honest about how common it really is and keep the lines of communication open with who they are dating.  Always remember you are not your child’s best friend you are their parent.  Support and understanding is the biggest thing that you can give your child with dating and teen dating violence.  Speak up and Speak out against violence and you can involve your teen too in this process.  Getting your child involved will also teach him or her that it isn’t the right relationship to be a part of.  These tools should help keep you more educated and your teen safer.  Remember there is NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE.

We begin.. March 2012

We are fascilitating a voice to change established State laws to the national level through awareness to the masses about the issues surrounding domestic violence victims and survivors, which are trying to make a movement to provide guidance from the national level in helping to better protect the victims and survivors of domestic violence. Guest bloggers, who are already domestic violence advocates and/or already experts in the field of domestic violence laws and the need for change to incur to better protect all victims and survivors in the future, will also provide input to help provide further structure and guidance in advocating for changes. Enjoy and be prepared to be informed, have continued education on these issues and receive call to actions as we proceed with our efforts! We encourage victims and survivors to provide input through the comment and/or occasional guest blogging.

Heather Piedmont, Policy Director &
Kathryn Krastin, Advocacy Director & Technical Support


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